Our culture sends messages about autism, sometimes overt, sometimes hidden, that autism is a disease or pathology. That message is tough on parents.

First of all, it’s human nature to look for the easier fix. We want to conserve our resources and move ahead in a sustainable way. But we also understand that grabbing for a quick solution can sometimes be risky business, especially in parenting.

It’s no wonder, then, that some autism families get sidetracked looking for solutions. Recent science has pivoted, however, and now describes neurodivergence and autism in four broad categories. In other words, science is becoming more accepting, too.

Even among children whose growth and development is broadly affected by their autism, the solution has always been to pivot toward their learning and connecting. That work keeps families on surer footing and creates room for everyone to respond to their progress with joy.