Overheard in the Wolfe House #88
(Paige grunts in disgust in the other room.)
Peggy: I think Paige is having trouble hemming her prom dress.
Sam: What can she do?
Peggy: Should I go help her?
Sam: Whatever you want. I can’t help her.
A call to be
My former editor and good friend, Annette Fuller, wrote this installment for autism awareness in the Winston-Salem Journal.
That a father would start a company in order to serve his son is no surprise to me. The folks over at nonPareil did the same.
But I was surprised at one statistic he shared with Annette: those of us without disabilities have more than 150 people in our support network. People with disabilities have 10 — and that is the challenge to the rest of us. Are you part of that network for someone with a disability? Maybe you should be.
All month long
It’s April and it’s “autism awareness” month. We’re pretty “aware” of autism around the Wolfe house, but I will give my two cents on the many news stories that roll out this month.
I’m happy to see the story today in Parade magazine about the first wave of the autism baby boom turning 20. There are so few programs for adults.
Sam is fortunate to be interning at nonPareil. Gary Moore, one of the directors and founders, tells me there are plenty of kids like Sam out there — some have managed to earn a 4-year degree; Sam will be getting a certificate — and have trouble holding down a job.
Joanne Chen points out in today’s article that 20 percent of adults with autism are employed. Sixty percent are either under-employed or paid below-market wages.
That will be Sam when he graduates. He bags groceries at Albertsons; he could be building computers for someone. He loves it; and as far as I can tell, he’s doing a good job. And like other adults with autism, he doesn’t mind repetitive work.
Who will hire him?
P.S. Happy Birthday to the Family Room blog, sometimes better known as the Overheard in the Wolfe House blog, but still oneyear old today.
It’s About Time
I wanted to put an expletive in the title, but since this is all about respectful language, I didn’t.
The Texas Legislature should soon be removing retarded and other disrespectful language from the statutes.
People first language for all of us, including parents.
Overheard in the Wolfe House #87
(after the Bartonville Town Council meeting)
Sam: You’re home early.
Peggy: I left early.
Sam: Oh, were they talking about the water tower again?
Coming up
I will be providing some parent training at Region 10 in Richardson on May 7. I’ll explain what Texas Parent to Parent does for families, and also the decision-making training I provided in New Braunfels and Corpus Christi last year. More deets to come.
Overheard in the Wolfe House #86
Sam: Can you get this cocoa buttermilk cake recipe for my graduation?
Peggy: Sure.
Sam: What goes with cake?
Peggy: Punch goes with cake. At an open house, you have cake and punch, and some little things. I can make some little candies. Do you want punch?
Sam: Sure.
Overheard in the Wolfe House #85
Sam: I can tell you want to learn more about midi sounds sets.
Peggy: Yes, I want to understand what you did with Sibelius.
Sam: Well, I’m telling you, Mom, it’s beyond you.
Overheard in the Wolfe House #84
(as Paige walks into the room in her new gown)
Sam: Oh, yeah, that’s right. Paige is going to prom. (pause) She’s in sparkly blue.
Overheard in the Wolfe House #83
(while talking via Skype about his very first computer-build at nonPareil)
Grandma: Does it work?
Sam: Yes, Grandma, it works. It’s a gaming computer.